簡介 Introduction:
很多年以前,看到過一個美國調查統計的消息。有人調查了一百對夫婦,看他們結婚二十年之後的狀況。結果很令人吃驚:二十年後仍然彼此相愛並享受婚姻的夫婦僅有六對!當時,我就有一個疑惑,爲什麽那麽多曾經海誓山盟、生死相許的戀人們,結婚以後卻彼此傷害,甚至於勞燕紛飛了?是什麽難題沒有辦法解決呢?
進入神學院讀書時,我對輔導學非常感興趣。在課堂上扮演輔導者與被輔導者的時候,發現每個人都會堅持自己的理由,公說公有理,婆說婆有理,誰也説服不了誰。只有儅大家都回到聖經原則,被聖靈光照,才會發現自己的問題在哪裏。原來所謂的無解的難題是因爲自我太大,沒有尊主爲大!
後來,我開始教牧辅导的服事。有一次,我在教導一個關於婚戀情商課程的時候,一位七十多嵗的老人家對我說:哎,我真是白活了幾十年!應該早點聼你講,學到這些知識,就不至於白白浪費了幾十年的美好時光!
原來人所謂的無解的難題是有解的!而且,會帶給人出人意外的平安!那就是聖經輔導!
隨著這些年聖經輔導事工的實踐,我越來越體會到神話語的寶貴與全能!真的像聖經所宣告的那樣:“聖經都是神所默示的,於教訓、督責、使人歸正、教導人學義都是有益的,叫屬神的人得以完全,預備行各樣的善事。”(提後3:16-17)
聖經輔導的存在,是基於一個事實:就是每個人都會面對各種各樣的問題,每個人都需要得到輔導幫助,也許不是正式的聖經輔導,但是,每個人都在不同的層面上接受過別人的輔導,也輔導過別人。在日常生活中,輔導是經常發生的。只不過很多人沒有意識到而已。
輔導諮詢一詞,在舊約中就很多,就是出主意、給計謀,勸告的意思。 (以賽亞書 9:6 和合本)因有一嬰孩為我們而生;有一子賜給我們。政權必擔在他的肩頭上;他名稱為“奇妙策士、全能的 神、永在的父、和平的君”。策士,就是翻譯過來就是輔導,給意見。主耶穌就是最棒的聖經輔導員!主不斷用話語指教我們,給我們最美的建議和輔導。而我們每一個神的兒女,也都有這樣一個職份,傳講神的話語,教導真理,勸人與神和好,並不斷督責人歸正。
主耶穌基督的教會裡,是需要聖經輔導的。基於聖經的輔導,是用神的話和聖經的原則與人交談,從而把人帶到神面前,蒙神光照,被神改變。教會的弟兄姐妹們彼此造就,彼此建立,彼此鼓勵,彼此勸慰,一同走天路。
Many years ago, I saw a piece of news about an American survey and statistics. Someone surveyed a hundred couples to see how they were doing after twenty years of marriage. The results were astonishing: there were only six couples still in love with each other and enjoying their marriage after twenty years! At that time, I had a doubt, why so many lovers who once vowed to each other and promised each other for life and death, hurt each other after they got married, and even got divorced? What problem can't be solved?
When I entered seminary, I became very interested in counseling. When I played the role of counselor and counselee in class, I found that everyone would insist on their own reasons. There were two sides to every question, and no one could persuade the other. Only when everyone returns to the principles of the Bible and is enlightened by the Holy Spirit will they discover where their problems lie. It turns out that the so-called unsolvable problem is because the ego is too big, and the Lord is not respected!
Later, I started the ministry of pastoral counseling. Once, when I was teaching a course on emotional intelligence in marriage and love, an old woman in her seventies said to me: Hey, I have lived for decades in vain! I should have listened to you earlier, and I would not have wasted decades of good time after learning this knowledge!
It turns out that the so-called unsolvable problems have solutions! Moreover, it will bring peace beyond all expectations! That's biblical counseling!
With the practice of biblical counseling ministry over the years, I have come to realize more and more the preciousness and almighty power of God’s words! It is really as declared in the Bible: “16 All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness,17 so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.” (2 Timothy 3:16-17)
The existence of biblical counseling is based on the fact that everyone faces various problems, and everyone needs counseling help. It may not be formal biblical counseling, but everyone has received others on different levels. Be counseled, and counseled others. Counseling is a regular occurrence in everyday life. It's just that many people don't realize it.
The term “counseling” is used a lot in the Old Testament, which means giving advice, and advising.
(Isaiah 9:6) “For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders.
And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.”
A strategist is translated as counseling and giving advice. The Lord Jesus is the best biblical counselor! The Lord continually instructs us with His Word, giving us the most beautiful advice and counsel. And every one of us God’s children also has such a position, to preach the word of God, teach the truth, persuade people to reconcile with God, and constantly rebuke people to reform.
In the Church of the Lord Jesus Christ, biblical counseling is needed. Counseling based on the Bible is to use God's words and the principles of the Bible to talk with people, so as to bring people before God, be enlightened by God, and be changed by God. Brothers and sisters in the church edify each other, build up each other, encourage each other, comfort each other, and walk the pilgrimage together.
進入神學院讀書時,我對輔導學非常感興趣。在課堂上扮演輔導者與被輔導者的時候,發現每個人都會堅持自己的理由,公說公有理,婆說婆有理,誰也説服不了誰。只有儅大家都回到聖經原則,被聖靈光照,才會發現自己的問題在哪裏。原來所謂的無解的難題是因爲自我太大,沒有尊主爲大!
後來,我開始教牧辅导的服事。有一次,我在教導一個關於婚戀情商課程的時候,一位七十多嵗的老人家對我說:哎,我真是白活了幾十年!應該早點聼你講,學到這些知識,就不至於白白浪費了幾十年的美好時光!
原來人所謂的無解的難題是有解的!而且,會帶給人出人意外的平安!那就是聖經輔導!
隨著這些年聖經輔導事工的實踐,我越來越體會到神話語的寶貴與全能!真的像聖經所宣告的那樣:“聖經都是神所默示的,於教訓、督責、使人歸正、教導人學義都是有益的,叫屬神的人得以完全,預備行各樣的善事。”(提後3:16-17)
聖經輔導的存在,是基於一個事實:就是每個人都會面對各種各樣的問題,每個人都需要得到輔導幫助,也許不是正式的聖經輔導,但是,每個人都在不同的層面上接受過別人的輔導,也輔導過別人。在日常生活中,輔導是經常發生的。只不過很多人沒有意識到而已。
輔導諮詢一詞,在舊約中就很多,就是出主意、給計謀,勸告的意思。 (以賽亞書 9:6 和合本)因有一嬰孩為我們而生;有一子賜給我們。政權必擔在他的肩頭上;他名稱為“奇妙策士、全能的 神、永在的父、和平的君”。策士,就是翻譯過來就是輔導,給意見。主耶穌就是最棒的聖經輔導員!主不斷用話語指教我們,給我們最美的建議和輔導。而我們每一個神的兒女,也都有這樣一個職份,傳講神的話語,教導真理,勸人與神和好,並不斷督責人歸正。
主耶穌基督的教會裡,是需要聖經輔導的。基於聖經的輔導,是用神的話和聖經的原則與人交談,從而把人帶到神面前,蒙神光照,被神改變。教會的弟兄姐妹們彼此造就,彼此建立,彼此鼓勵,彼此勸慰,一同走天路。
Many years ago, I saw a piece of news about an American survey and statistics. Someone surveyed a hundred couples to see how they were doing after twenty years of marriage. The results were astonishing: there were only six couples still in love with each other and enjoying their marriage after twenty years! At that time, I had a doubt, why so many lovers who once vowed to each other and promised each other for life and death, hurt each other after they got married, and even got divorced? What problem can't be solved?
When I entered seminary, I became very interested in counseling. When I played the role of counselor and counselee in class, I found that everyone would insist on their own reasons. There were two sides to every question, and no one could persuade the other. Only when everyone returns to the principles of the Bible and is enlightened by the Holy Spirit will they discover where their problems lie. It turns out that the so-called unsolvable problem is because the ego is too big, and the Lord is not respected!
Later, I started the ministry of pastoral counseling. Once, when I was teaching a course on emotional intelligence in marriage and love, an old woman in her seventies said to me: Hey, I have lived for decades in vain! I should have listened to you earlier, and I would not have wasted decades of good time after learning this knowledge!
It turns out that the so-called unsolvable problems have solutions! Moreover, it will bring peace beyond all expectations! That's biblical counseling!
With the practice of biblical counseling ministry over the years, I have come to realize more and more the preciousness and almighty power of God’s words! It is really as declared in the Bible: “16 All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness,17 so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.” (2 Timothy 3:16-17)
The existence of biblical counseling is based on the fact that everyone faces various problems, and everyone needs counseling help. It may not be formal biblical counseling, but everyone has received others on different levels. Be counseled, and counseled others. Counseling is a regular occurrence in everyday life. It's just that many people don't realize it.
The term “counseling” is used a lot in the Old Testament, which means giving advice, and advising.
(Isaiah 9:6) “For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders.
And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.”
A strategist is translated as counseling and giving advice. The Lord Jesus is the best biblical counselor! The Lord continually instructs us with His Word, giving us the most beautiful advice and counsel. And every one of us God’s children also has such a position, to preach the word of God, teach the truth, persuade people to reconcile with God, and constantly rebuke people to reform.
In the Church of the Lord Jesus Christ, biblical counseling is needed. Counseling based on the Bible is to use God's words and the principles of the Bible to talk with people, so as to bring people before God, be enlightened by God, and be changed by God. Brothers and sisters in the church edify each other, build up each other, encourage each other, comfort each other, and walk the pilgrimage together.
宗旨 Purpose:
聖經輔導是以談話的方式,打開神話語的事工。接受聖經輔導意味著要順服聖經的權威,因此也可以説:聖經輔導是針對信徒生命中特別有需要的地方,或出現的問題進行集中強化的門徒訓練。
聖經輔導也是神對每一位基督徒的呼召:“所以,你們該彼此勸慰,互相建立,正如你們素常所行的。”(帖撒羅尼迦前書5:11)
聖經宣告:“聖經都是神所默示的,於教訓、督責、使人歸正、教導人學義都是有益的,叫屬神的人得以完全,預備行各樣的善事。”(提後3:16-17)這正是聖經輔導的定義與步驟:教導神是誰,神要求人如何生活;督責指出人的需要和其根源;帶領人歸回正道,使人在聖靈的感動下來到十字架面前真正悔改,立志跟隨主;教導人透過學習神的話語,效法基督公義與聖潔的性情,效法主耶穌的樣式。
聖經輔導是一種特別的門徒培訓,是用聖經原則處理人們生活中的各種問題。目的是把人帶到神面前,使人的生命發生合神心意的改變,造就主耶穌基督的門徒,進而使之成爲可以帶領門徒的門徒,實踐主交付的大使命。
Biblical counseling is a way of talking to open up the ministry of God's word. Accepting biblical counseling means submitting to the authority of the Bible. Therefore, it can also be said that biblical counseling is a concentrated and intensive discipleship training aimed at areas of special need or problems in the lives of believers.
Biblical counseling is also God's call to every Christian: “11 Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.” (1 Thessalonians 5:11)
The Bible declares: “16 All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness,17 so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.” ( 2 Timothy 3:16-17) This is the definition and steps of biblical counseling: teaching who God is and how God requires people to live; Come down to the cross to truly repent and aspire to follow the Lord; teach people to imitate Christ’s righteous and holy disposition and the likeness of the Lord Jesus through studying God’s words.
Biblical counseling is a special kind of discipleship that uses biblical principles to deal with problems in people's lives. The purpose is to bring people before God, make changes in people’s lives according to God’s will, make disciples of the Lord Jesus Christ, and then make them disciples who can lead disciples, and fulfill the great commission entrusted by the Lord.
聖經輔導也是神對每一位基督徒的呼召:“所以,你們該彼此勸慰,互相建立,正如你們素常所行的。”(帖撒羅尼迦前書5:11)
聖經宣告:“聖經都是神所默示的,於教訓、督責、使人歸正、教導人學義都是有益的,叫屬神的人得以完全,預備行各樣的善事。”(提後3:16-17)這正是聖經輔導的定義與步驟:教導神是誰,神要求人如何生活;督責指出人的需要和其根源;帶領人歸回正道,使人在聖靈的感動下來到十字架面前真正悔改,立志跟隨主;教導人透過學習神的話語,效法基督公義與聖潔的性情,效法主耶穌的樣式。
聖經輔導是一種特別的門徒培訓,是用聖經原則處理人們生活中的各種問題。目的是把人帶到神面前,使人的生命發生合神心意的改變,造就主耶穌基督的門徒,進而使之成爲可以帶領門徒的門徒,實踐主交付的大使命。
Biblical counseling is a way of talking to open up the ministry of God's word. Accepting biblical counseling means submitting to the authority of the Bible. Therefore, it can also be said that biblical counseling is a concentrated and intensive discipleship training aimed at areas of special need or problems in the lives of believers.
Biblical counseling is also God's call to every Christian: “11 Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.” (1 Thessalonians 5:11)
The Bible declares: “16 All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness,17 so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.” ( 2 Timothy 3:16-17) This is the definition and steps of biblical counseling: teaching who God is and how God requires people to live; Come down to the cross to truly repent and aspire to follow the Lord; teach people to imitate Christ’s righteous and holy disposition and the likeness of the Lord Jesus through studying God’s words.
Biblical counseling is a special kind of discipleship that uses biblical principles to deal with problems in people's lives. The purpose is to bring people before God, make changes in people’s lives according to God’s will, make disciples of the Lord Jesus Christ, and then make them disciples who can lead disciples, and fulfill the great commission entrusted by the Lord.
聖經輔導事工的異象 The Vision of AIT Biblical Counseling Ministry:
聖經輔導事工,致力於服事眾教會,機構,和個人。帶領人來到神面前。使沒有信仰的人變爲有信仰,能夠認識神,成爲基督徒;使信主的人堅固信仰,生命更新,不斷成聖,成爲可以帶領門徒的門徒。
Biblical Counseling Ministry is committed to serving churches, institutions, and individuals. Bring people to God. Make people without faith become believers, know God, and become Christians; make believers strengthen their faith, renew their lives, keep sanctifying, and become disciples who can lead disciples.
Biblical Counseling Ministry is committed to serving churches, institutions, and individuals. Bring people to God. Make people without faith become believers, know God, and become Christians; make believers strengthen their faith, renew their lives, keep sanctifying, and become disciples who can lead disciples.
聖經輔導的對象 Participants of Biblical Counseling:
一切重生得救的基督徒和願意得到聖經輔導的非基督徒。
All born-again Christians and non-Christians who want to receive biblical counseling.
All born-again Christians and non-Christians who want to receive biblical counseling.
方式 Approaches:
采用兩種圣辅方式:一,是對那些對聖經輔導有興趣的基督徒進行系統的培訓;二,是對那些在生活中遇到問題需要得到輔導的人進行長期或短期導。
Two approaches are adopted: one is to provide systematic training for those Christians who are interested in biblical counseling; the other is to provide long-term or short-term counseling to those who encounter problems in life and need counseling.
Two approaches are adopted: one is to provide systematic training for those Christians who are interested in biblical counseling; the other is to provide long-term or short-term counseling to those who encounter problems in life and need counseling.
内容 Contents:
家庭輔導:
婚姻的目的:丈夫的角色;妻子的角色;按照聖經做父母之不惹兒女的氣;按照聖經做父母之管教和教導。
常見議題:
如何改善溝通;内疚與悔恨;試煉與苦難;憂慮與懼怕;饒恕;從聖經角度處理憤怒
特殊議題:
輔導性問題者;輔導患有疾病的人;輔導心理疾病患者;輔導抑鬱人群;
輔導方法:
建立關係,給予希望;收集信息,辨別問題;給予指導,佈置作業;聖經輔導常見問題解答;實習觀摩。
在進行聖經輔導團體培训的同時,也為有需要的弟兄姐妹提供個別的聖經輔導,給他們提供屬天的安慰、鼓勵,劝诫,並提供具體施行改變的方法,幫助他們勝過處境,荣耀神。
Family Counseling:
Purpose of Marriage: Husband's role; Wife's role; Biblical parenting to not irritate children; Biblical parenting to discipline and teach.
Common Topics:
How to Improve Communication; Guilt and Regret; Trials and Suffering; Worry and Fear; Forgiveness; Dealing with Anger Biblically
Special Topics:
Counseling people with sexual problems; Counseling people with diseases; Counseling people with mental illness; Counseling people with depression;
Counseling method:
Build relationships, give hope; gather information, identify problems; give guidance, assign homework; biblical counseling FAQs; practice observation. While conducting biblical counseling group training, we also provide individual biblical counseling for brothers and sisters in need, providing them with heavenly comfort, encouragement, admonition, and providing specific methods of implementing changes to help them overcome the situation and glorify God.
婚姻的目的:丈夫的角色;妻子的角色;按照聖經做父母之不惹兒女的氣;按照聖經做父母之管教和教導。
常見議題:
如何改善溝通;内疚與悔恨;試煉與苦難;憂慮與懼怕;饒恕;從聖經角度處理憤怒
特殊議題:
輔導性問題者;輔導患有疾病的人;輔導心理疾病患者;輔導抑鬱人群;
輔導方法:
建立關係,給予希望;收集信息,辨別問題;給予指導,佈置作業;聖經輔導常見問題解答;實習觀摩。
在進行聖經輔導團體培训的同時,也為有需要的弟兄姐妹提供個別的聖經輔導,給他們提供屬天的安慰、鼓勵,劝诫,並提供具體施行改變的方法,幫助他們勝過處境,荣耀神。
Family Counseling:
Purpose of Marriage: Husband's role; Wife's role; Biblical parenting to not irritate children; Biblical parenting to discipline and teach.
Common Topics:
How to Improve Communication; Guilt and Regret; Trials and Suffering; Worry and Fear; Forgiveness; Dealing with Anger Biblically
Special Topics:
Counseling people with sexual problems; Counseling people with diseases; Counseling people with mental illness; Counseling people with depression;
Counseling method:
Build relationships, give hope; gather information, identify problems; give guidance, assign homework; biblical counseling FAQs; practice observation. While conducting biblical counseling group training, we also provide individual biblical counseling for brothers and sisters in need, providing them with heavenly comfort, encouragement, admonition, and providing specific methods of implementing changes to help them overcome the situation and glorify God.
一些案例 Testimonies:
- 一位晚期癌症患者D姐妹,因著聖經輔導,與神和好,與人和睦,家庭關係轉變,其本人最終以喜樂的心態安息主懷。
- 一位瀕臨離婚的P姐妹,因著聖經輔導,不懼被離婚的壓力,堅持按照聖經原則處理自己的婚姻問題。最終沒有離婚,為主做了美好的見證。
- 一對L夫妇因疾病災難的衝擊,在醫院已經發下病危通知的情況下,因著聖經輔導,走出死蔭幽谷,滿懷喜樂地見證神的大能。
- 一位經歷未婚夫車禍死亡的F姐妹,在極度傷心悲痛、信心低潮的時候,接受了聖經輔導,現在已經逐漸步入正常的生活軌道。
- 一位正在經歷丈夫失業,憂鬱症、官司纏身、女儿反叛的Y姐妹,因著聖經輔導,堅定了對神的信靠,每一天靠主而活,存著盼望的心繼續行路。
- Sister D, a terminal cancer patient, was reconciled to God and others because of biblical counseling, and her family relationship changed. She finally died in the Lord's embrace with joy.
- Sister P, who was on the verge of divorce, was not afraid of the pressure of being divorced because of biblical counseling, and insisted on handling her marital problems according to the principles of the Bible. In the end, they did not get divorced, and they gave a wonderful testimony to the Lord.
- Due to the impact of disease and disaster, a couple of L walked out of the valley of the shadow of death and witnessed God's power with joy because of the counseling of the Bible, even though the hospital had issued a critical illness notice.
- Sister F, who experienced the death of her fiancé in a car accident, received biblical counseling at a time of extreme grief and low confidence, and has gradually stepped into a normal life track.
- A sister Y who is experiencing her husband's unemployment, depression, lawsuits, and daughter's rebellion, has strengthened her trust in God because of the biblical counseling, lives by the Lord every day, and continues to walk on the road of heaven with a heart of hope.
代禱事項 Prayer Requests:
聖經輔導是一項長期的、需要持續付出時間、精力、體力、金錢的事工。我們的聖經輔導是免費地提供給有需要的人。需要大家的代禱與財務支持!
願主使用聖經輔導事工,使祂的名得荣耀!
Biblical counseling is a long-term ministry that requires continuous dedication of time, energy, physical strength, and money. Our biblical counseling is provided free of charge to those in need. We need your prayers and financial support!
May the Lord use biblical counseling ministry to His glory!
願主使用聖經輔導事工,使祂的名得荣耀!
Biblical counseling is a long-term ministry that requires continuous dedication of time, energy, physical strength, and money. Our biblical counseling is provided free of charge to those in need. We need your prayers and financial support!
May the Lord use biblical counseling ministry to His glory!
有需要聖經輔導的弟兄姐妹和朋友們可以聯絡我們的同工,聯絡方法如下
Brothers, sisters and friends who need biblical counseling can contact our co-workers. The contact methods are as follows:
Brothers, sisters and friends who need biblical counseling can contact our co-workers. The contact methods are as follows: